That sweet “sugar face”, a term of endearment for those gray snouts we love so much, is a sign your dog is entering their golden years and it’s a beautiful, deeply special season of life. Your best buddy is starting to slow down a little, sleep a little longer and maybe now prefers a cozy blanket to a game of fetch. With a few thoughtful changes and extra snuggles, you can keep your senior dog comfortable, happy and thriving.
IS YOUR DOG READY FOR RETIREMENT?
“Senior” means different things depending on the breed. Small dogs might not show signs of age until 10 or older, while larger breeds can begin to age around six or seven. But you know your dog best. Watch for signs of aging like decreased appetite, changes in bathroom habits, more sleep, slower walks or even a little stiffness getting up or down. Things that never used to be a big deal might suddenly become a hurdle—literally. Hopping into the car? Going up stairs? Navigating slippery hardwood floors? All these changes require a few upgrades or extra care.
SETTING UP THEIR SPACE FOR COMFORT
You don’t have to overhaul your house, but small changes can make a big difference. Here are five ideas.
1. Add a non-slip rug to the hallway.
2. Consider a memory foam bed to cushion those joints.
3. Dog stairs or a ramp for the couch or bed can take pressure off sore hips.
4. In the car, a soft crate, soft bed or booster seat can make rides safer and cozier.
5. Shorter walks or a few extra bath- room breaks for outside time are
HELPING THEM FEEL THEIR BEST
Just like us, senior dogs might get a little anxious, forgetful or unsure. If your pup suddenly seems clingier or less confident, don’t panic. It’s a normal part of your lifelong caretaker journey. You can try natural remedies like calming chews, joint supplements, CBD oil (talk to your veterinarian first), or just a little extra cuddle time. Reintroduce basic training cues with lots of positive reinforcement or a new puzzle toy to treats to help stimulate their mind and give them a confidence boost.
Above all, trust your gut. You know your dog. Your vet’s advice is important, but your instincts count too. If some-thing seems “off,” advocate for your pup.
HOW TO START SAYING GOODBYE
If your dog is in constant pain, losing joy for their once favorite activities, or struggling to clean themselves or with incontinence, it might be time to have “the talk.” It is a moment that few want to think about, but creating a plan way before it arrives will help you feel confident about your decisions during an emotional time.
Every choice is personal to you and your dog, so as your dog enters their senior years, talk about end-of-life care and euthanasia options with your veterinarian to mentally or physically prepare for different outcomes. Include your dog’s whole family, even children if age appropriate. As the days or weeks of their transition arrive, talk about what’s happening, allow space for grief and honor the bond you all shared. If your dog has animal siblings, know that they may grieve too. Watch for changes in their behavior and give them lots of comfort and consistency.
You’ll never “get over” the loss, but you can find peace living with their memories. Create a memory box or photo album. Donate to a senior dog rescue in their name. Commission a piece of art or hold a celebration of life. Let yourself feel it all, the heartbreak and the love, because your dog mattered. A lot.
WHAT TO DO IF SOMETHING HAPPENS TO YOU
Another not fun but crucial must-do is to plan for your own estate. . Who will take care of your dog if something hap-pens to you? There’s never a bad time to update your living will, and you can do it for free through freewill.com. Just like you would for a dependent child, identify someone who is willing and able to become your pet’s guardian. Document your dog’s routine, medical needs and preferences. If possible, set aside funds or purchase pet insurance to ease the financial responsibility.
Caring for a senior dog is a privilege; a chance to return the endless love and loyalty they’ve given you. With a few adjustments, a lot of heart, and some honest conversations, your sugar-faced sweetheart can enjoy their golden years feeling safe, loved, and treasured every step of the way.
Kayla Cavallaro and Alexis Ott are co-owners of The Mainely Dog in Falmouth and Portland. They offer personalized daycare, boarding, grooming and enrichment options. For more information about programming visit themainelydog.com.